Help Needed

Asking for help can have a lot of stigma behind it, especially when it's around your mental health.

Have you experienced this?

Asking for help can be uncomfortable, especially in a society with a lot of judgment and shame. Particularly when it’s around mental health. Can you relate? I know I can.

As someone who has dealt with mental health challenges most of my life, I know exactly how that can feel.  In the past, I struggled with asking for help, which only made things worse.

What I want to know is —

  • Who said we have to be strong all the time?

  • Who said we were crazy for feeling this way?

Well — I kinda already know, and I think you do too. It’s the old way of thinking

You know —

  • Suck it up, it could be worse

  • You’ve got it better than most people

  • What do you have to complain about?

Heard that before?

It’s what got us into so much trouble in the first place. It’s what’s killing our society. It’s time to change that,
and that my friend… starts with you!


Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of growth and strength.

What do you need help with —

  • around the house?

  • at work?

  • with your kids?

  • your relationship with your partner?

  • maybe you need help sorting out your feelings.

Whatever you need, it’s not selfish to need. It’s essential to your well-being!

When we take the time to look inward and connect with what we truly desire, we are able to create the life we are meant to live.

Take a moment to ask yourself the following questions:

  1. What’s holding me back from getting the help I need?

  2. What is possible for me when I have the support I desire?

  3. What can I do to help myself right now?

We are not meant to do it alone.

Women have gathered together in community for centuries because of this.

  • We need support from others who understand

  • We need to know we are not alone in our feelings

  • We need to connect from the heart authentically

Find your community, reach out to a coach or counsellor,  talk to your people, and ask for what you need. 

Remember — you’re never alone.

Jenny xoxo

Psst… if you’re looking for an amazing community of women, I highly recommend Soul Full Camp!